Having a dog is a profound commitment, but it’s also an immensely rewarding experience. Our dogs are not just pets; they are our companions, confidants, and best friends. Many believe that the bond we share with our dogs transcends the typical pet-owner relationship. I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment.
Dogs seem to have an intuitive understanding of our emotions. When we cry, many dogs respond by licking our faces. The questions arise: “Why does my dog lick me when I cry?” and “What motivates this behavior?” Let’s explore the science and psychology behind this touching canine reaction.
1. As A Pain Relief
Crying can often be a response to physical pain. Just as a mother might kiss a child’s wounds to soothe them, dogs might lick our tears as a form of comfort. When dogs are injured, they lick their wounds to ease the pain, a behavior they instinctively apply when they sense their human is hurting.
2. To Comfort You
My initial theory aligns with scientific understanding: dogs lick us when we cry to comfort and show affection. When you cry, your body language changes, and dogs are adept at reading these signals. They understand that you’re sad and will try to console you in any way they can, including licking your tears. This behavior can be seen as a symbolic act of wiping away your tears to cheer you up.
3. It’s A Learned Behavior
Licking is a natural instinct for dogs, often learned from their mother during puppyhood. This behavior helps puppies bond and receive comfort. As they grow, dogs continue to use licking as a soothing mechanism, which they extend to their human companions, especially when they perceive their humans are upset.
4. Loving The Salty Taste
Another reason your dog might lick your tears is the taste. Dogs are naturally curious and explore the world with their mouths. Many find the salty taste of our sweat and tears appealing, which may explain why they are drawn to lick us when we cry.
5. The Poor Pup Is Stressed
Dogs are highly sensitive to their owner’s emotions. When you are stressed or upset, your dog may also feel anxious. Licking can be a way for dogs to self-soothe and to calm both themselves and their human companions. If your behavior affects your dog’s mood, it’s important to offer comfort and reassurance.
Do Dogs Have Emotions?
According to Stanley Coren, a leading canine researcher, dogs have emotional capacities comparable to a human child aged 2 to 2.5 years. They can experience basic emotions such as joy, love, fear, and distress. This ability to empathize with us explains why dogs may react to our sadness with such genuine concern.
What About Crying?
While dogs are empathic, they do not produce tears in response to their emotions. Any appearance of a dog crying could indicate an eye infection, allergies, or other medical issues that require veterinary attention.
Should You Let Your Dog Lick Your Face?
While it’s endearing that your dog wants to comfort you, frequent face-licking may pose health risks. According to Dr. Leni K. Kaplan from Cornell University, while dog saliva generally poses minimal risk to healthy skin, licking areas like the eyes, mouth, and nose can increase the risk of zoonotic infections. It’s advisable to limit face-licking to avoid potential health issues.
To Sum Things Up
Dogs are incredible creatures that offer unwavering love and support. Their instinct to comfort us during our emotional times is just one of the many ways they show their devotion. Understanding why your dog licks you when you cry can deepen your appreciation for their empathetic nature. Next time your dog comforts you with their affectionate licks, remember to return the love and cherish your loyal companion.
Here’s to more joyful moments with your furry friend and fewer tears.
